You already know HOW to declutter.
So why are there still things you can't seem to let go of?
There’s a clutter conversation that goes underneath the piles, bins, and overstuffed closets to uncover:
why some things are so hard to make decisions about in the first place.
HONEST CONVERSATIONS ABOUT CLUTTER
Why We Keep What We Keep and What Our Stuff May Be Trying to Tell Us
A self-paced clutter workshop that helps you understand why some things are so hard to let go of — so you can make clearer decisions about what deserves space in your life now.
Get lifetime access for just $37.
Come with the clutter you can't seem to make decisions about. Leave understanding why you've been holding onto it and with a clearer way to decide what deserves space in your life now.
YOU PROBABLY DON'T NEED ANOTHER DECLUTTERING CHALLENGE.
You know how decluttering works.
Keep.
Donate.
Trash.
Keep.
Donate.
Trash.
You've probably watched the shows.
Maybe you've done the challenges.
You've organized the closet, bought the bins, filled the donation bags and promised yourself more than once that you were finally going to deal with that room.
And yet there are things you:
- Move from one place to another.
- Pick up, stare at, and put right back down.
- Know you don't really need, but getting rid of them somehow feels harder than it should.
- Move from one place to another.
- Pick up, stare at, and put right back down.
- Know you don't really need, but getting rid of them somehow feels harder than it should.
Things like:
- The clothes that haven't fit in years.
- Your kids' baby things.
- Your mom's dishes.
- The expensive supplies for the hobby you never actually started.
- The gift you don't want but feel terrible giving away.
- The box you've moved three times and still haven't opened.
- The clothes that haven't fit in years.
- Your kids' baby things.
- Your mom's dishes.
- The expensive supplies for the hobby you never actually started.
- The gift you don't want but feel terrible giving away.
- The box you've moved three times and still haven't opened.
And then there's all the ordinary stuff sitting around your house waiting for you to finally decide what to do with it.
What if the problem isn't that you're bad at decluttering?
What if some of your stuff is carrying something you haven't recognized yet?
YOUR CLUTTER MAY BE TELLING YOU SOMETHING.
Some of the things we keep aren't really about the things at all.
They can be holding:
IDENTITY.
Who you used to be.
Who you thought you'd become.
Who you still think you should be.
LOVE.
The people, memories, and stories you're afraid of losing if you let go of the things connected to them.
GUILT.
The money you spent.
The gift someone gave you.
The project you should finish.
The woman you think you should be.
GRIEF.
The person, relationship, dream, or season of life that letting go might force you to acknowledge is really over.
POSTPONED DECISIONS.
The things that aren't sentimental at all.
They're simply sitting there because you're already making a thousand decisions and haven't had the capacity for one more.
Your clutter can be information.
And once you understand what you're actually dealing with, you can start making decisions from clarity instead of guilt, shame, pressure, or obligation.
DON'T JUST
CLEAR THE CLUTTER.
Understand it.
Maybe you've been looking around your home thinking you need to finally get serious about decluttering.
Maybe you're tired of seeing the same piles.
The same boxes.
The same things you keep moving around because you don't know what to do with them.
Maybe you've even decided that you just need to be more disciplined and make yourself deal with it.
But before you start another big decluttering project...
Let's look at what's already taking up space.
Not so you can create a perfect house.
Not because you need to get rid of everything.
And definitely not because we're going to race around filling as many donation bags as possible.
We're going to slow down long enough to understand:
- Why is this still here?
- What am I trying to preserve?
- What am I afraid it would mean if I let this go?
- Is this meaningful to me…or do I simply feel responsible for it?
- What “should” might I be storing along with this thing?
- What decision have I simply been postponing?
- Why is this still here?
- What am I trying to preserve?
- What am I afraid it would mean if I let this go?
- Is this meaningful to me…or do I simply feel responsible for it?
- What “should” might I be storing along with this thing?
- What decision have I simply been postponing?
And ultimately:
Does this deserve space in the life I'm living now?
Sometimes a fresh start doesn't begin by throwing more things away.
Sometimes it begins by seeing what's already there differently.
THIS ISN'T A WORKSHOP YOU JUST SIT AND WATCH.
You're actually going to use it on your own clutter.
Throughout Honest Conversations About Clutter, I'll walk you through five conversations that may be hiding underneath your stuff.
But we're not stopping at understanding them.
You're going to use them.
You'll reflect on your own belongings.
You'll work through the questions in your companion workbook.
You'll hear real-life examples that may suddenly help you recognize what's happening with your own things.
And you'll choose actual clutter from your own home and practice this new way of making decisions as you go.
Pause the workshop when you need to.
Go get the box.
Pick up the dress.
Open the closet.
Sit with the question for a while.
Come back tomorrow if you need to.
This isn't three hours of listening to me talk about clutter and then returning to the exact same stuff with the exact same questions.
This is where we start looking at your clutter differently.
And sometimes the biggest realization is simply:
“Wait...THAT'S why I've been keeping this.”
HERE ARE THE FIVE CONVERSATIONS WE'LL HAVE
CONVERSATION #1: IDENTITY
When your stuff belongs to another version of you.
The clothes from another body.
The belongings from another career.
The hobby you thought you'd love.
The things belonging to the young-mom version of you.
We'll explore:
Who does this represent…and am I honoring her, or am I still asking myself to be her?
CONVERSATION #2:
LOVE
When keeping the thing starts feeling like keeping the person.
Mom's dishes.
Grandma's belongings.
Your children's artwork.
Family photographs.
The things that quietly made you the keeper of everyone else's history.
We'll talk about how to separate:
The person. The memory. The story. And the object.
Because loving someone doesn't necessarily require assuming lifetime responsibility for everything they touched.
CONVERSATION #3:
GUILT
When we're not storing possessions, we're storing “shoulds.”
I should use this.
I should finish this.
I paid good money for this.
Someone gave this to me.
I shouldn't be wasteful.
I should be the kind of woman who does this.
We'll uncover the expectations hiding inside our stuff and ask one particularly revealing question:
If nobody knew I owned this, would I still choose to keep it?
CONVERSATION #4:
GRIEF
When letting go of the object means acknowledging an ending.
Sometimes the hardest part of releasing something isn't the object.
It's admitting that the season connected to it is over.
A person. A relationship. A career. A dream.
Children growing up.
A version of ourselves.
A life we thought we'd have.
We'll create room for the question:
What ending would I have to acknowledge if I let this go?
No forced timelines. No “just get rid of it.”
Understanding first.
CONVERSATION #5: POSTPONED DECISIONS
When your house has become full of decisions you haven't made yet.
The return.
The donation bag.
The broken lamp.
The paperwork.
The clothes you're “still thinking about.”
The project you're definitely going to finish someday.
Maybe you don't have an organizing problem at all.
Maybe you have a decision backlog.
And that's a completely different problem to solve.
Order
Items
Summary
AND THEN WE'RE GOING TO
DO SOMETHING WITH IT.
I don't want you finishing this workshop with pages of notes and the exact same clutter staring at you tomorrow morning.
During the workshop, you're going to choose a small area of your own home and:
Practice this new way of making decisions.
Not your basement.
Not the whole garage.
Not your entire wardrobe. :)
One drawer.
One shelf.
One box.
One small pile.
Then you'll practice asking:
What is this carrying?
What am I thinking and feeling now that I understand that?
What am I actually trying to preserve?
And:
Knowing what I know now, does this deserve space in the life I'm living?
Maybe you release it.
Maybe you keep it…intentionally.
Maybe you realize you don't need 40 objects to preserve one beautiful story.
Maybe you finally make the decision that's been waiting six months.
Maybe you realize you're not ready yet…but for the first time, you understand why.
The goal isn't to see how much you can get rid of.
The goal is to make decisions differently.
IMAGINE WALKING THROUGH YOUR HOME AND BEING ABLE TO SAY...
“This isn't really about the dress. It's about who I used to be.”
“I don't actually love all of Grandma's things. I've felt responsible for keeping them.”
“I'm not keeping this because I want it. I'm keeping it because I feel guilty about the money I spent.”
“This is hard because letting go means acknowledging that season is over.”
“This pile isn't emotional at all. It's a decision backlog. I can start closing it.”
That's clarity.
And clarity gives you somewhere to go besides:
“Why can't I just get rid of this?”
YOU MAY NOT FINISH WITH AN EMPTY BASEMENT.
But you may finally understand why that box has been sitting there for 11 years.
And that's a very different place to begin.
You'll leave with:
LANGUAGE
to name what's actually happening.
UNDERSTANDING
of why certain things have been so difficult.
PERSPECTIVE
that helps you look at your belongings — and the stories attached to them — differently.
CLARITY
about what genuinely matters to you versus what you're keeping from guilt or obligation.
A NEW WAY TO
MAKE DECISIONS
about the things in your home.
And most importantly:
MOVEMENT.
Because understanding your clutter gives you somewhere to go from here.
WHAT YOU GET FOR $37
HONEST CONVERSATIONS ABOUT CLUTTER
Why We Keep What We Keep and What Our Stuff May Be Trying to Tell Us
Your purchase includes:
- The complete self-paced Honest Conversations About Clutter workshop
- The Five Honest Conversations framework: Identity, Love, Guilt, Grief & Postponed Decisions
- Guided personal reflection to help you apply each conversation to your own belongings
- Real-life examples and coaching to help you recognize what's happening underneath your own clutter
- Guided clutter-working time so this doesn't end with another notebook full of ideas
- The companion workbook to use alongside the workshop
- A practical decision-making process you can continue using with the things in your home
- Lifetime access so you can return to the workshop whenever you need it
- The complete self-paced Honest Conversations About Clutter workshop
- The Five Honest Conversations framework: Identity, Love, Guilt, Grief & Postponed Decisions
- Guided personal reflection to help you apply each conversation to your own belongings
- Real-life examples and coaching to help you recognize what's happening underneath your own clutter
- Guided clutter-working time so this doesn't end with another notebook full of ideas
- The companion workbook to use alongside the workshop
- A practical decision-making process you can continue using with the things in your home
- Lifetime access so you can return to the workshop whenever you need it
Because the thing that's difficult to make a decision about today may not be the thing that's difficult next year.
Different belongings can carry different stories.
Different seasons can bring different decisions.
And you'll have this process to come back to whenever you find yourself asking:
“Why can't I just deal with this?”
Get lifetime access to Honest Conversations About Clutter for just $37.
YOU DON'T NEED TO STOP CARING ABOUT YOUR THINGS.
You don't need to throw away everything sentimental.
You don't need to become a minimalist.
And you certainly don't need another reason to criticize yourself for what you haven't dealt with yet.
You need a better place to begin.
Instead of immediately asking:
Should I keep this or get rid of it?
We'll start somewhere else:
What is this carrying?
What does this actually hold for me?
And once you understand that:
Does it deserve space in the life you're living now?
Give yourself more than a cleaner drawer.
Give yourself a new perspective on why you keep what you keep — and a clearer way to decide what comes with you from here.
Frequently Asked Questions
What exactly is Honest Conversations About Clutter?
Honest Conversations About Clutter is a self-paced workshop designed to help you understand why some of your stuff is so difficult to make decisions about in the first place.
We'll explore five different things our clutter can be carrying:
Identity. Love. Guilt. Grief. Postponed decisions.
You'll have opportunities throughout the workshop to reflect on your own belongings, work through the companion workbook, and actually practice what you're learning with real clutter in your home.
This isn't another organizing class or “get rid of 100 things” challenge.
We're going underneath the clutter so you can make decisions with more clarity and less guilt, shame, pressure, and obligation.
How does the self-paced workshop work?
You'll receive access to the complete workshop and companion workbook so you can go through the experience on your own schedule.
You can watch it all at once if you'd like.
Or stop.
Think.
Write.
Go find the thing that came to mind.
Work through a small area.
Come back when you're ready.
In fact, I encourage you not to treat this like another video you need to hurry up and finish. Use it.
The goal isn't to check “watch clutter workshop” off your list.
The goal is to start making different decisions about the things taking up space in your home.
Is this going to be another decluttering challenge?
No.
I'm not going to tell you what room to declutter each day or give you a giant checklist of things you should get rid of.
In fact, the goal isn't to see how much you can get rid of at all.
We're going to help you understand what you're actually dealing with so you can make better decisions about what stays, what goes and what genuinely deserves space in your life now.
Do I get lifetime access?
Yes. Your $37 purchase includes lifetime access to the complete workshop. And there's a reason for that.
You may work through this today thinking about clothes that belong to another version of you.
Six months from now, it might be your kids' things.
A year from now, you may be sorting through belongings after a major life change. The objects change.
The Five Honest Conversations still give you a place to begin.
Come back whenever you need them.
What if I'm very sentimental and don't want someone telling me to get rid of everything?
Then you're in exactly the right place.
I am absolutely NOT going to tell you that everything sentimental needs to go. Sometimes the clearest decision is:
“I love this. This matters to me. I'm keeping it.”
We're learning how to distinguish that from keeping something because of guilt, fear, obligation or an expectation you didn't consciously choose.
The goal is not less stuff at any cost.
The goal is clarity about what deserves your space.
Will I actually declutter during the workshop?
Yes, but probably not the way you're imagining.
You'll choose one small, manageable area of your home and actually work with your belongings using what you've learned.
We're not racing to clean an entire room.
We're practicing a different way of making decisions with real things in your real home.
And because you're working at your own pace, you can pause whenever you need more time.
What should I have with me?
Start with:
One object you've repeatedly struggled to make a decision about.
It might be clothing, a gift, something sentimental, an old project, something inherited…whatever immediately comes to mind.
You'll also want access to one very small clutter area you can work with during the guided doing time.
And have your companion workbook and something to write with nearby. That's it.
What if I've already tried a million decluttering methods?
Good.
Because I'm not giving you another one.
You probably already know HOW to declutter.
We're going to talk about why knowing how hasn't made some of these decisions any easier.
And that may be the conversation you've been missing.
STILL WONDERING IF THIS IS FOR YOU?
If there's something in your home you keep looking at and thinking...
“Why can't I just deal with this?”
Start there.
Instead of beginning another giant decluttering overhaul, start with a different question:
“What is this carrying or holding onto for me?”
And then let's decide what actually deserves space in the life you're living now.
HONEST CONVERSATIONS ABOUT CLUTTER
Why We Keep What We Keep and What Our Stuff May Be Trying to Tell Us
Self-paced. Lifetime access. $37.
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