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THE CLUTTER EVENT OF THE FALL
You already know HOW to declutter.
So why are there still things you can't seem to let go of?
This fall, we’re having the clutter conversation that goes underneath the piles, bins. and overstuffed closets to uncover
why some things are so hard to make decisions about in the first place.
HONEST CONVERSATIONS ABOUT CLUTTER
Why We Keep What We Keep and What Our Stuff May Be Trying to Tell Us
A 3-hour LIVE, interactive clutter experience with your host, Jennifer Roskamp, and your fellow attendees when we break out into groups.
TWO CHANCES TO JOIN ME LIVE:
Tuesday, September 1 at 1 PM ET
AND/OR Friday, September 4 at 5 PM ET
LIVE ON ZOOM
Early Registration is now: Just $37
Come with the clutter you can't seem to make decisions about. Leave understanding why you've been holding onto it and with a clearer way to decide what deserves space in your life now.
YOU PROBABLY DON'T NEED ANOTHER DECLUTTERING CHALLENGE.
You know how decluttering works.
Keep.
Donate.
Trash.
Keep.
Donate.
Trash.
You've probably watched the shows.
Maybe you've done the challenges.
You've organized the closet, bought the bins, filled the donation bags and promised yourself more than once that you were finally going to deal with that room.
And yet there are things you:
- Move from one place to another.
- Pick up, stare at, and put right back down.
- Know you don't really need, but getting rid of them somehow feels harder than it should.
- Move from one place to another.
- Pick up, stare at, and put right back down.
- Know you don't really need, but getting rid of them somehow feels harder than it should.
Things like:
- The clothes that haven't fit in years.
- Your kids' baby things.
- Your mom's dishes.
- The expensive supplies for the hobby you never actually started.
- The gift you don't want but feel terrible giving away.
- The box you've moved three times and still haven't opened.
- The clothes that haven't fit in years.
- Your kids' baby things.
- Your mom's dishes.
- The expensive supplies for the hobby you never actually started.
- The gift you don't want but feel terrible giving away.
- The box you've moved three times and still haven't opened.
And then there's all the ordinary stuff sitting around your house waiting for you to finally decide what to do with it.
What if the problem isn't that you're bad at decluttering?
What if some of your stuff is carrying something you haven't recognized yet?
YOUR CLUTTER MAY BE TELLING YOU SOMETHING.
Some of the things we keep aren't really about the things at all.
They can be holding:
IDENTITY.
Who you used to be.
Who you thought you'd become.
Who you still think you should be.
LOVE.
The people, memories, and stories you're afraid of losing if you let go of the things connected to them.
GUILT.
The money you spent.
The gift someone gave you.
The project you should finish.
The woman you think you should be.
GRIEF.
The person, relationship, dream, or season of life that letting go might force you to acknowledge is really over.
POSTPONED DECISIONS.
The things that aren't sentimental at all.
They're simply sitting there because you're already making a thousand decisions and haven't had the capacity for one more.
Your clutter can be information.
And once you understand what you're actually dealing with, you can start making decisions from clarity instead of guilt, shame, pressure, or obligation.
TWO CHANCES TO JOIN ME LIVE:
Tuesday, September 1 at 1 PM ET
AND/OR Friday, September 4 at 5 PM ET
LIVE ON ZOOM
Early Registration is now: Just $37
THIS FALL, DON'T JUST
CLEAR THE CLUTTER.
Understand it.
There's something about fall that makes us want a fresh start.
Summer is winding down.
Schedules are changing.
We're spending more time at home.
And before long, the holiday bins are going to come out, the calendar is going to get fuller, and even more things are going to find their way into our homes.
So before all of that happens...
Let's look at what's already taking up space.
Not so you can create a perfect house.
Not because you need to get rid of everything.
And definitely not because we're going to race around filling as many donation bags as possible.
We're going to slow down long enough to understand:
- Why is this still here?
- What am I trying to preserve?
- What am I afraid it would mean if I let this go?
- Is this meaningful to me…or do I simply feel responsible for it?
- What “should” might I be storing along with this thing?
- What decision have I simply been postponing?
- Why is this still here?
- What am I trying to preserve?
- What am I afraid it would mean if I let this go?
- Is this meaningful to me…or do I simply feel responsible for it?
- What “should” might I be storing along with this thing?
- What decision have I simply been postponing?
And ultimately:
Does this deserve space in the life I'm living now?
Sometimes a fresh start doesn't begin by throwing more things away.
Sometimes it begins by seeing what's already there differently.
THIS ISN'T A WEBINAR
YOU SIT AND WATCH.
We're actually going to do this together.
For three hours, we're going to have honest conversations about our clutter…with each other and with ourselves.
I'll teach you the five conversations that may be hiding underneath your stuff.
But then we're going to use them.
You will:
Because some of the biggest breakthroughs happen when we hear another woman say:
“Wait...I do that too.”
Or:
“I never realized THAT was why I've been keeping this.”
This isn't three hours of listening to me talk about clutter.
It's an experience.
HERE'S WHAT WE'LL TALK ABOUT TOGETHER
CONVERSATION #1: IDENTITY
When your stuff belongs to another version of you.
The clothes from another body.
The belongings from another career.
The hobby you thought you'd love.
The things belonging to the young-mom version of you.
We'll explore:
Who does this represent…and am I honoring her, or am I still asking myself to be her?
CONVERSATION #2:
LOVE
When keeping the thing starts feeling like keeping the person.
Mom's dishes.
Grandma's belongings.
Your children's artwork.
Family photographs.
The things that quietly made you the keeper of everyone else's history.
We'll talk about how to separate:
The person. The memory. The story. And the object.
Because loving someone doesn't necessarily require assuming lifetime responsibility for everything they touched.
CONVERSATION #3:
GUILT
When we're not storing possessions, we're storing “shoulds.”
I should use this.
I should finish this.
I paid good money for this.
Someone gave this to me.
I shouldn't be wasteful.
I should be the kind of woman who does this.
We'll uncover the expectations hiding inside our stuff and ask one particularly revealing question:
If nobody knew I owned this, would I still choose to keep it?
CONVERSATION #4:
GRIEF
When letting go of the object means acknowledging an ending.
Sometimes the hardest part of releasing something isn't the object.
It's admitting that the season connected to it is over.
A person. A relationship. A career. A dream.
Children growing up.
A version of ourselves.
A life we thought we'd have.
We'll create room for the question:
What ending would I have to acknowledge if I let this go?
No forced timelines. No “just get rid of it.”
Understanding first.
CONVERSATION #5: POSTPONED DECISIONS
When your house has become full of decisions you haven't made yet.
The return.
The donation bag.
The broken lamp.
The paperwork.
The clothes you're “still thinking about.”
The project you're definitely going to finish someday.
Maybe you don't have an organizing problem at all.
Maybe you have a decision backlog.
And that's a completely different problem to solve.
AND THEN WE'RE GOING TO
DO SOMETHING WITH IT.
I don't want you leaving with 17 pages of notes and the exact same clutter staring at you tomorrow morning.
During our time together, you're going to choose a small area of your own home and practice this new way of making decisions.
Not your basement.
Not the whole garage.
Not your entire wardrobe. :)
One drawer. One shelf. One box. One small pile.
Then you'll practice asking:
What is this carrying?
What am I thinking and feeling now that I understand that?
What am I actually trying to preserve?
And:
Knowing what I know now, does this deserve space in the life I'm living?
✔ Maybe you release it.
✔ Maybe you keep it…intentionally.
you can use whenever life changes.
✔ Maybe you realize you don't need 40 objects to preserve one beautiful story.
✔ Maybe you finally make the decision that's been waiting six months.
✔ Maybe you realize you're not ready yet…but for the first time, you understand why.
- Maybe you release it.
- Maybe you keep it…intentionally.
- Maybe you realize you don't need 40 objects to preserve one beautiful story.
- Maybe you finally make the decision that's been waiting six months.
- Maybe you realize you're not ready yet…but for the first time, you understand why.
The goal isn't to see how much you can get rid of.
The goal is to make decisions differently.
IMAGINE WALKING THROUGH YOUR HOME AND BEING ABLE TO SAY...
“This isn't really about the dress. It's about who I used to be.”
“I don't actually love all of Grandma's things. I've felt responsible for keeping them.”
“I'm not keeping this because I want it. I'm keeping it because I feel guilty about the money I spent.”
“This is hard because letting go means acknowledging that season is over.”
“This pile isn't emotional at all. It's a decision backlog. I can start closing it.”
That's clarity.
And clarity gives you somewhere to go besides:
“Why can't I just get rid of this?”
YOU MAY NOT LEAVE WITH AN EMPTY BASEMENT.
But you may finally understand why that box has been sitting there for 11 years.
And that's a very different place to begin.
You'll leave with:
LANGUAGE
to name what's actually happening.
UNDERSTANDING
of why certain things have been so difficult.
PERSPECTIVE
from hearing the experiences of other women.
CLARITY
about what genuinely matters to you versus what you're keeping from guilt or obligation.
A NEW WAY TO
MAKE DECISIONS
about the things in your home.
And most importantly:
MOVEMENT.
Because we're not just going to talk about it. We're going to practice it together.
WHAT YOU GET FOR $37
HONEST CONVERSATIONS ABOUT CLUTTER
The Clutter Event of the Fall
Your registration includes:
- The complete 3-hour LIVE interactive experience
- The Five Honest Conversations teaching
- Guided personal reflection
- Small-group breakout conversations
- Live coaching and examples
- Guided clutter-working time
- A companion event workbook
- A practical decision-making process you can continue using after the event
- The complete 3-hour LIVE interactive experience
- The Five Honest Conversations teaching
- Guided personal reflection
- Small-group breakout conversations
- Live coaching and examples
- Guided clutter-working time
- A companion event workbook
- A practical decision-making process you can continue using after the event
TWO CHANCES TO JOIN ME LIVE:
Tuesday, September 1 at 1 PM ET
AND/OR Friday, September 4 at 5 PM ET
LIVE ON ZOOM
Early Registration is now: Just $37
BEFORE THE
HOLIDAY BINS COME OUT...
Before more things come into the house...
Before the calendar gets fuller...
Before another year ends with the same boxes, piles and unfinished decisions still sitting there...
Let's have an honest conversation about what's already taking up space.
You don't need to stop caring about your things.
You don't need to throw away everything sentimental.
You don't need to become a minimalist.
And you certainly don't need another reason to criticize yourself for what you haven't dealt with yet.
You need a better place to begin.
What is this carrying? What does this actually hold for me?
And once you understand that:
Does it deserve space in the life you're living now?
This fall, give yourself more than a cleaner drawer.
Give yourself a fresh perspective on why you keep what you keep — and a clearer way to decide what comes with you from here.
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TWO CHANCES TO JOIN ME LIVE:
Tuesday, September 1 at 1 PM ET
AND/OR
Friday, September 4 at 5 PM ET
LIVE ON ZOOM
Early Registration is now: Just $37
Frequently Asked Questions
What exactly is Honest Conversations About Clutter?
It's a 4-hour live, interactive experience designed to help you understand why some of your stuff is so difficult to make decisions about in the first place.
We'll explore five different things our clutter can be carrying: identity, love, guilt, grief, and postponed decisions, and you'll have time to reflect, talk with other women, learn through live coaching, and actually work with some of your own clutter while we're together.
This isn't another organizing class or “get rid of 100 things” challenge.
We're going underneath the clutter so you can make decisions with more clarity and less guilt, shame, and obligation.
Do I need to attend both live sessions?
No! I'm offering the event live twice so you can choose the time that works best for your life. Or attend both.
Tuesday, September 1 at 1 PM ET
OR
Friday, September 4 at 5 PM ET
It's the same complete event both times. Simply choose the one that works best for you…or come twice.
Is this going to be another decluttering challenge?
No.
I'm not going to tell you what room to declutter each day or give you a giant checklist of things you should get rid of.
In fact, the goal isn't to see how much you can get rid of at all.
We're going to help you understand what you're actually dealing with so you can make better decisions about what stays, what goes and what genuinely deserves space in your life now.
Is the replay included with my $37 registration?
It is not, but you can add it at checkout for just $7
What if I'm very sentimental and don't want someone telling me to get rid of everything?
Then you're in exactly the right place.
I am absolutely NOT going to tell you that everything sentimental needs to go.
Sometimes the clearest decision is:
“I love this. This matters to me. I'm keeping it.”
We're learning how to distinguish that from keeping something because of guilt, fear, obligation or an expectation you didn't consciously choose.
The goal is not less stuff at any cost.
The goal is clarity about what deserves your space.
Will we actually declutter during the event?
Yes, but probably not the way you're imagining.
You'll choose one small, manageable area of your home and have time during the event to actually work with your belongings using what you've learned.
We're not racing to clean an entire room.
We're practicing a different way of making decisions with real things, in your real home, while we're together.
Do I have to talk in the breakout rooms?
You'll get the most from the experience if you're willing to participate, but you never have to share something that feels too personal.
Some conversations will naturally be lighter. Others…especially around grief, relationships, or changing seasons of life, may bring up things you'd rather reflect on privately.
You get to decide what you share.
The purpose of the breakout rooms isn't to put anyone on the spot. It's to create an opportunity to hear yourself in the experiences of other women because sometimes someone else puts words to something you've been feeling for years.
What should I bring?
Come with:
One object you've repeatedly struggled to make a decision about.
It might be clothing, a gift, something sentimental, an old project, something inherited…whatever immediately comes to mind.
You'll also want access to one very small clutter area you can work with during our guided doing time.
And bring your companion workbook, something to write with, and an open mind.
That's it.
What if I've already tried a million decluttering methods?
Good.
Because I'm not giving you another one.
You probably already know HOW to declutter.
We're going to talk about why knowing how hasn't made some of these decisions any easier.
And that may be the conversation you've been missing.
STILL WONDERING IF THIS IS FOR YOU?
If there's something in your home you keep looking at and thinking...
“Why can't I just deal with this?”
Come join us.
This fall, instead of starting another giant decluttering overhaul, let's start with a different question:
“What is this carrying or holding onto for me?”
And then let's decide what actually deserves space in the life you're living now.
TWO CHANCES TO JOIN ME LIVE:
Tuesday, September 1 at 1 PM ET
AND/OR
Friday, September 4 at 5 PM ET
LIVE ON ZOOM
Early Registration is now: Just $37
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