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This is a Complete Resistance Reset
Because you don't need better intentions.
You need a better response to resistance.
You already know what you want. You want to do things like:
✅Declutter
✅Eat healthier
✅Get exercise
✅Declutter.
✅Stop avoiding things.
✅Work on your marriage.
✅Follow through. With pretty much anything.
✅Participate in the program you joined.
✅Feel proud of yourself again.
So if these are the kinds of things you want, why do you keep talking yourself out of the things you actually want?
For the next 30 days, we're going to answer that question together.
You probably don't have an intention problem.
Most women I work with know exactly what they want.
They have plans.
✔ Goals.
✔ Ideas.
✔ Lists.
✔ Books they've bought.
✔ Podcasts they've listened to.
✔ Programs they've joined.
✔ Good intentions.
But somewhere between wanting something and doing something, they start making a case for why today isn't the day. And so they do nothing.
Maybe you've heard yourself say:
- I'll start on Monday.
- I don't have enough energy.
- It's going to take forever.
- I probably won't stick with it anyway.
- I'll do it when life calms down.
- I just don't have it in me today.
- I'll start on Monday.
- I don't have enough energy.
- It's going to take forever.
- I probably won't stick with it anyway.
- I'll do it when life calms down.
- I just don't have it in me today.
Sound familiar?
If so, then you need to...
Meet Rita
Rita is resistance.
She isn't bad. She simply wants you safe, happy, and comfortable...and of course not disappointed in how you always avoid the same things.
Rita tells you that YOU are the problem (but it's actually her!).
The thing is...Rita sounds reasonable. She says things like:
- Tomorrow will be better.
- You deserve a break.
- You'll probably quit.
- It's already too late today.
- Wait until everyone else does their part.
- Start fresh on Monday.
- Tomorrow will be better.
- You deserve a break.
- You'll probably quit.
- It's already too late today.
- Wait until everyone else does their part.
- Start fresh on Monday.
And so you listen to Rita...and your life pretty much always looks (& feels) the same.
But that stops today...if you join us.
For 30 days, we're going to help you stop letting Rita make decisions about your life.
This Isn't Another Challenge
This isn't habit bootcamp.
This isn't productivity training.
This isn't a fresh start.
This is a skill.
A skill most women were never taught.
Most women weren't taught how to:
- Notice resistance
- Make things feel smaller
- Stop negotiating with yourself
- Build evidence
- Follow through more often
- Notice resistance
- Make things feel smaller
- Stop negotiating with yourself
- Build evidence
- Follow through more often
Not perfectly.
But more often.
And doing things more often (rather than perfectly...
well that changes everything.
Finding more time
"When it comes to my life, I am so happy to report that I've become much more intentional, and noticeable more organized. I'm finding more time and getting more done."
~Valentina
Community is priceless
"If I didn't have this community to support me, I am sure I would fall back into my bad habits! The community holds me accountable in a way that is gentle and encouraging!"
~Pat
I apply what I learn
"I appreciate the live lessons each week and the positive, supportive community that encourages me daily to apply what I have learned."
~Susan
Here's the thing...
I’ve spent years working with women who genuinely want things to be different...and I’ve watched the same thing happen again and again.
They know what to do. They often even know how to do it.
But in the moment when it’s time to act, something starts negotiating.
I created Rita because I wanted to give that resistance a name and give us a way to finally work with it differently.
For these 30 days, I’m going to walk you through that process personally.
What We'll Work On Over The Next 30 Days
WEEK ONE
Meet Rita Resistance
ONE: Learn how to notice resistance instead of automatically believing it.
TWO: Identify the exact difference between your excuses and the truths you need to pay attention to.
THREE: Begin identifying Rita's favorite arguments.
WEEK THREE
Stop Negotiating
ONE: Notice how much energy is spent avoiding things instead of doing them.
TWO: Learn to catch Rita's committee meetings.
THREE: Spend less time arguing. Spend more time moving.
WEEK TWO
Make Things Smaller
ONE: Learn why ten-minute tasks often feel like three-hour commitments.
TWO: Stop treating simple actions like overwhelming projects.
THREE: Practice shrinking what feels huge.
WEEK FOUR
Become Someone You Can Count On
ONE: Start believing that you will take action...rather than let your excuses win.
TWO: Keep tiny promises. Every day.
THREE: Start again when life interrupts (rather than spiral into avoidance...and stay there)
In 30 Days, You'll Know Exactly What To Do When...
- Everything feels bigger than it actually is.
- You don't feel like following through on something you genuinely want.
- You've spent days or weeks thinking about something that would probably take ten minutes to start.
- Resistance starts sounding really convincing.
- You catch yourself saying, "I'll do it tomorrow," "I'll start Monday," or "I'll come back when life calms down."
- You're tempted to believe that investing time, energy, money, or support into yourself just isn't worth it right now.
- You've fallen behind and are considering giving up altogether.
- You find yourself negotiating with yourself instead of taking action.
- You're waiting to feel motivated, confident, energetic, or "ready."
- You don't trust yourself to stick with something, even though you truly want the result.
- You want to stop disappointing yourself and start building evidence that you can count on yourself again.
And perhaps most importantly...
You'll stop letting the part of you that wants immediate relief make decisions for the part of you that wants a life you genuinely love.
Because after these 30 days, you won't just understand resistance.
You'll know how to recognize it, respond to it, move through it, and do it anyway.
This Is For You If You...
- Know exactly what you want, but somehow keep talking yourself out of taking action.
- Spend more time thinking about doing things than actually doing them.
- Feel like simple tasks feel bigger, heavier, or more draining than they probably need to.
- Genuinely intend to follow through, but resistance almost always seems to have the better argument.
- Have started wondering why you can't seem to make yourself do things you actually want to do.
- Often tell yourself you'll start tomorrow, Monday, after vacation, when life calms down, or when you have more energy.
- Have invested in books, podcasts, planners, programs, and ideas, but still struggle to consistently apply what you already know.
- Avoid things that would probably make your life easier because they feel like they'll ask more of you than you want or have to give.
- Are tired of disappointing yourself, questioning yourself, and wondering why good intentions don't seem to translate into action.
- Are ready to stop letting resistance have the deciding vote and start becoming someone who does it anyway.
This Doesn't End In 30 Days
And honestly?
It shouldn't.
Because Rita doesn't disappear.
She changes topics.
She changes seasons.
She changes scripts.
Thirty days from now, Rita may not be talking about decluttering anymore.
She might be talking about your health.
Your marriage.
Your finances.
Your goals.
Showing up for yourself.
Investing in support.
Taking a chance.
Trying again.
Resting.
Having difficult conversations.
Or simply continuing something you already know is helping.
The goal of these 30 days isn't to eliminate Rita.
The goal is to stop automatically handing her the microphone.
To notice her.
Question her.
Laugh at her.
Recover from her faster.
And eventually say:
"I hear you, Rita."
"But you don't get the deciding vote anymore."
Why Accomplished Lifestyle
Is Different
Most communities teach you what to do.
We're helping women learn how to stop talking themselves out of doing the things they already know matter.
That's why 30 Days of Doing It Anyway™ isn't just a challenge.
It's the new front door into our community.
A place where women learn to:
- Recognize resistance
- Borrow support from others when Rita gets loud
- Get back to it after falling behind
- Actually believe that their life will be different
- Practice doing it anyway
- Recognize resistance
- Borrow support when Rita gets loud
- Get back to it after falling behind
- Actually believe that their life will be different
- Practice doing it anyway
Again.
And again.
And again.
Without shame.
Without starting over.
Without waiting for motivation.
Coming Soon: The Rita App
One of the things we're most excited about is bringing Rita to life through an interactive app to use right on your phone that is designed exclusively for Accomplished Lifestyle community members.
Imagine having a way where you can:
- Capture what Rita is saying in real time
- Identify resistance patterns
- Collect evidence that Rita isn't always right
- Track your negotiations
- Celebrate small wins
- Build a personal library of proof that you can count on yourself
- Capture what Rita is saying in real time
- Identify resistance patterns
- Collect evidence that Rita isn't always right
- Track your negotiations
- Celebrate small wins
- Build a personal library of proof that you can count on yourself
All current members of ACL will receive early access as we roll out our Rita app and as we continue developing her, as we learn from YOU about YOUR resistance during these 30 days.
During these 30 days, we will be building this app with YOUR exact resistance in mind.
This app is going to be worth the entire membership in ACL alone.
Because we don't believe women need another planner.
We believe they need a better response to resistance.
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Make things smaller.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What exactly is included in the 30 days?
Your 30-day experience includes:
- 30 Days of Doing It Anyway™
- Four live weekly teachings
- Twenty short audio lessons
- Worksheets and tools
- Friday Do It Anyway Challenges
- Saturday Rita Ratings
- Sunday Evidence Rooms
- Access to the community space
- Encouragement, accountability, and support from women walking through the experience alongside you
Does this include everything inside Accomplished Lifestyle?
No. This free experience is intentionally focused to avoid overwhelm and content fatigue…when it comes to learning, less is truly more. During your first 30 days, you'll participate in the Resistance Reset and have access to the community space.
Success circles that are 100% Rita Resistance based (these are our accountability groups).
If you choose to remain a member after your first 30 days, you'll have the opportunity to continue growing within the larger Accomplished Lifestyle community, participating in your success circle, and begin your official ACL journey primed and ready without all the resistance you’ve always had to try to push through when you start new things.
Do I need to attend live?
No.
The experience is designed to support real women living real lives.
If you can't attend live, replays will be available so you can participate at a pace that works for you.
What if I fall behind?
Then you'll be in good company. In fact, we fully expect Rita to try to convince you that you've missed too much, fallen too far behind, or should just wait until another time. Part of this experience is learning how to recognize those arguments, question them, and come back anyway. There is no perfect pace.
There is only continuing to practice doing it anyway, in whatever that looks like for you.
How much time should I expect this to take?
Most daily activities take less than 10 minutes.
The weekly teaching is the longest component, and everything else is intentionally designed to fit into a full life, not take over one. We will have breakout groups throughout the live experience, so these will likely last 90 minutes in total.
Is the Rita app included?
Not yet.
The Rita app is currently being developed as an exclusive resource for the women in our community.
During the Resistance Reset, you'll learn the Rita methodology, build your Evidence Room, and begin collecting the tools and language that the app will eventually help support and reinforce. We will have it ready to go based on your exact resistance the week following the end of our 30 days.
Is this included in Accomplished Lifestyle?
Yes.
Current ACL members already have access and do not need to purchase separately.
Would have fallen apart!
"Without this community, I would have fallen apart a long time ago. They are here for me in all the messy parts of life."
~Mary
No more procrastinating!
"I am more aware of how little time it takes to take small steps rather than procrastinating"
~Judy
Life changing in just two weeks!
"Even my friends and family see a change in me...and I've only been here two weeks. Imgaine what I will look like a year from now!"
~Sherry
And We're Not Stopping Here...
One of the things we're most excited about is bringing Rita to life beyond these first 30 days.
We're currently developing an interactive Rita experience designed exclusively for women who continue their journey inside the Accomplished Lifestyle community.
Imagine being able to catch Rita in the act, track her favorite arguments, collect evidence that she's not always right, and have support in your pocket when resistance starts sounding really convincing.
More details are coming soon.
But for now, let's spend the next 30 days learning how to recognize Rita, question her, and stop letting her have the deciding vote.
Join us for 30 Days of Doing It Anyway™ and let's get started.
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